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“The Relentless Terry Fox” in Maclean's Magazine April 1, 2005

Maclean's Magazine published a good story about Terry Fox by Ken MacQueen their April 1 issue, titled The Relentless Terry Fox.

MacQueen accompanied Fox for three days along the Marathon of Hope back
in 1980, in Ontario.  He gives some of the background stories,
about some of the frustrations on the tour, the sacrifice of Darrell
Fox's high school graduation ceremony so he could join his brother
Terry, the anguish of Betty Fox “giving up two sons to the road.”

“It was a stupid thing to do,” says Betty Fox reflecting on her son's
quest to run across Canada on one leg, “really stupid.” 
“It was supposed to happen,” she says next
reflecting how all the pieces fell into place to create one of Canada's
singular moments of history.  “I believe he was supposed to get
cancer. And do this run
for cancer research.”  Then, as with a tear wrenching realization
she concludes, 
“He wasn't meant to . . . to live.”

MacQueen also reflects on how true the Terry Fox Run Foundation has
stayed to Terry's wishes.  There is no corporate sponsorship, no
endorsements, no event or company tie-ins.  It is a very lean
operation that Terry's brother Darrell runs as national director of the
organization.

Attending the Canadian Mint coin unveiling at Simon Fraser University
on March 14th, MacQueen sees all the people who played important roles
in Terry's development and his dream; his parents and siblings, his
coaches, his best friend Doug Alward, his friend Rick Hansen. MacQueen
poses the questions about how rare an occurence a Terry Fox comes along
in a country's history, and concludes that Terry Fox had a tremendous
support system.  Rick Hansen called his old friend “the instrument
of a dream” and says, “The vision behind it is so captivating it doesn't always just depend on one individual.”

 It's a good story.

For my personal account and pictures of attending the coin unveiling click here.

Darrell Fox interview in Vancouver Sun today: Terry's younger brother

Darrell Fox interview in Vancouver Sun today: Terry's younger brother

Good interview in today's (Friday April 8th) Vancouver Sun with Darrell
Fox, the younger brother of Terry Fox and now national director of the
Terry Fox Run Foundation, page B2-B3 of the Westcoast section.

I first met Darrell in 1993, when he invited me to come to the BC/Yukon
office of the Terry Fox Run Foundation where he was then executive
director.  He also invited me to become a Terry's Team member – to
speak at runs and elementary schools as a living example that cancer
research has made a difference.  I liked Darrell immediately then,
and I believe this Vancouver Sun article does him justice. 
Darrell has always put Terry Fox first, he always asks the question,
“What would Terry think?”

This article explains the special bond that Darrell always had with his
older middle brother.  Darrell went to Newfoundland to help
accompany Terry and Terry's best friend Doug Alward on the Marathon of
Hope.  Darrell took Terry's death pretty hard, and still does.

As national director of the Terry Fox Run Foundation, Darrell is
fiercely proud that 87 cents of every dollar raised goes into cancer
research.  The Terry Fox Run Foundation has one of the highest
benefit to cost ratio for a large non-profit organizaton – all the more
amazing when you realize that no corporate sponsorship is accepted.

Sounds Like Canada in Newfoundland for Terry Fox 25th Anniversary celebrations

This is from the Sounds Like Canada
website.  Gung Haggis Fat Choy is proud to be “friends” with CBC
Radio's Sounds Like Canada – for our past cross-over references and
events
click here.

Sounds Like Canada in
St. John's, Newfoundland, April 11 – 14.

25 Years of Hope – The Legacy of Terry Fox
On Tuesday, April 12, a special Fox Family celebration
of a great dream live from the Battery Hotel — we celebrate the start
of the 25th Anniversary of Terry Fox's Marathon of Hope Run.  A new
monument in his honour will be unveiled at mile zero. And, Doug
Coupland's new book “Terry” gets it's official launch.
If you have memories of Terry and would like to tell us what he means to you, please click here.

The week of April 11th, 2005: CBC Radio will broadcast a special five part series on morning shows across the country.

  • Monday – We begin with a look back at the man and his mission with The Marathon of Hope.
  • Tuesday – Find out why another Canadian icon Douglas Coupland turned his curiousity about Terry Fox into a book called TERRY.
  • Wednesday – It began in Newfoundland … how the Terry Fox legacy lives on in Canada's eastern most province.
  • Thursday – Keeping the journey alive… Terry's family and friends share
    their stories about the man they lost and the man who inspired a nation
    never to forget.
  • Friday – The man in motion –
    Rick Hansen toured the world in his wheelchair after he was personally
    touched and inspired by Terry Fox. He contemplates the power of people
    to affect change.

April 12th:

Anniversary
of the day, 25 years ago, that Terry Fox dipped his artificial leg in
the Atlantic Ocean. CBC Radio and CBC Television will be broadcasting
live across the network from St. John’s Newfoundland, on Sounds Like
Canada and CBC News: Canada Now from the Battery Hotel on Signal Hill.
The Fox family, Douglas Coupland and people instrumental in the
Marathon of Hope will be there to celebrate the day Terry started his
journey. As part of the festivities, a new monument to Terry will be
unveiled where he started, plus the new book Terry will be
launched with a reading and book signings, and the Canadian Mint will
have a booth where you can exchange your loonie for the new Terry Fox
dollar coin.

Live from the Battery Hotel, St. John's:

  • Morning Show with Jeff Gilhooly 6am
  • Sounds Like Canada with Shelagh Rogers 10:30am
  • Canada Now with Debbie Cooper and Ian Hanomansing 6pm.
  • dragon boat practice for Gung Haggis Fat Choy team starts 2pm, April 10th

    The first dragon boat practice for Gung Haggis Fat Choy dragon boat team will take place on April 10th, 2pm. 

    Interest in this special team specializing in multicultural,
    intercultural and cross-cultural activities is growing fast. Each week
    more people are asking to join the team.  I am now looking into
    starting up a second team – although registration will be more
    expensive – I am also looking into a team sponsorship (details to be
    revealed soon).


    MEET HERE:
    CCC Dragon Boat Association Warehouse and Boat Dock
    210 West 1st Ave
    Look for the large Warehouse that says MATCON.


    Best parking is on the street

    – or turn North into parking lot at West 1st and Columbia.  Go as
    far as you can to the sea wall, park your car – then walk 50 feet West
    along the seawall until you come to the CCC DBA compound – then come in
    and walk 100 feet to the DBA clubhouse.

    For 2005, we have a mix of returning paddlers from last year's team,
    brand new rookie paddlers, + experienced paddlers who started with me,
    went on to more experienced teams, and are returning because… they
    miss the special “Gung Haggis” spirit!

    If you have friends who would like to join the team – call me and bring them along.  We are an inclusive team!

    New activites for 2005
    We have been asked to help carve a dragon boat head for the Sea
    Vancouver Festival!  And yes… we will be racing that weekend too!

    Other races for 2005 include:
    May 21 Lotus Sports Club Regatta ?
    June 4/5  ADBF regatta confirmed
    June 18/19  Alcan Dragon Boat Festival confirmed
    July  9/10 SeaVancouver Festival confirmed
    July 16 Harrison Lake or Kent WA (Seattle) ?
    July 23 Richmond Dragon Boat Festival ?
    August 27/28 San Francisco International Dragon Boat Race ?
    Sep 3/4 Vancouver International Taiwanese Dragon Boat Race confirmed

    To get in shape for your first practice…
    Swimming is a great cross-training activity because it works the upper
    arms, deltoids, shoulders, lower back and hips.  Paddling is
    really about using your entire body – not just your arm muscles. 
    Practice some crunches and push ups too!  Make sure you do NOT do
    the old style sit-ups – this will strain and overextend your back
    muscles. Abdominal Crunches that lift your shoulds 2 to 4 inches are
    all that is needed – you will feel the difference!  Sets of 10 are
    good to start off with.  The purpose of doing these muscle
    building exercises is to make the practices easier.

    What to wear for your first practice:
    Prepare for both Rain and/or Shine!
    Dress in layers.  Bring a fleece jacket or windbreaker. 
    Bring an extra set of clothing to leave in your car, in case you get
    wet.  Afterall this is a water sport and anything can
    happen.  I can assure you that under my watch, there has never
    been a capsize or a swamping of a dragon boat.  All paddling
    equipment is provided as are Personal Floatation Devices.

    Our coaches are well trained.
    Both Bob Brinson and myself have done the National Coaching
    Certification Program, as well as False Creek Racing Canoe Club
    technical training courses.  We were also both presenters at the
    1st ever dragon boat coaching workshop in 2002.


    The first rule is always safety.
     
    And the dock at DBA is just getting set up by Bob Brinson.  The
    dock is now in place beside the MATCON barge, and a walkway will be
    installed this week.  Lockers and chaning rooms are also now being
    installed in the clubhouse.  A port-a-potty is also available on
    the premises.


    Looking forward to our first team paddle on April 10th, 2pm at the CCC DBA paddling facility. 

    Cheers, Todd Wong
    604-987-7124

    Terry Fox on Sounds Like Canada: stories from nurse Judith Ray

    Terry Fox on Sounds Like Canada: stories from nurse Judith Ray

    I listened with great interest to CBC Radio's Sounds Like Canada
    on 690 AM this morning, as guest host Kathryn Gretsinger talked with
    Judith Ray, who was then head nurse of the pedriatric ward at Royal
    Columbian Hospital in New Westminster.  Before she had even met
    Terry, she made decisions that would influence his treatment and
    recovery.  She ensured that at age 18, he would stay in the
    pediatric ward with children and teens aged 5 to 18, knowing that a
    room full of younger children would act as a great distraction to
    somebody facing the loss of a leg, especially somebody devoted to
    athletics.

    Even though the doctors were very sure that Terry had bone cancer and
    that his leg needed to be amputated, they were not going to tell him
    right away until all the tests were done.  Judith recounts how she
    emphasized that the whole family be in attendance when the doctor
    shared the news, that Terry's leg would be amputated, that he would
    have chemotherapy, that he would lose his leg.  This is a great
    shock to many people, as I can personally attest to… being told that
    you have cancer.  Judith says that Terry's younger siblings
    Darrell and Judith asked lots of questions and really helped lessen the
    shock and gravity of the moment.

    Judith shared great insight to Terry's character.  At the time of
    his amputation in March 1977, Terry was a first year student at Simon
    Fraser University studying kinesiology.  That first weekend she
    told him on a Friday that the amputation operation would take place on
    a Monday, and she reccommended he take the time to visit the places he
    could and enjoy the use of his two legs.  Where did he go? 
    SFU – Terry loved Simon Fraser University, and the university has now
    instituted Terry Fox Day, and has on display both a trophy case
    dedicated to Terry and a bronze statue.

    This interview with Judith Ray can be heard again tonight.

    Night Time Review can be heard Monday, Tuesday, Thursday and Friday at 8:00 p.m. (8:30 NT) on CBC Radio One.

    Night Time Review – Friday, April 8
    Most Canadians first met Terry Fox in 1980. He was a determined,
    21-year-old, one-legged runner who launched a Marathon of Hope — a
    plan to run across Canada to raise money for cancer.  Judith Ray
    first met Terry when the then-18-year-old Simon Fraser University
    basketball player came to the hospital with a sore leg.  She and
    Terry developed a close bond during those early days of his cancer
    diagnosis. A bond that Judith believes helped shape her life. 
    Guest host Kathryn Gretsinger talks to Judith Ray about the legacy of
    Terry Fox.

    Terry Fox legacy discussed on CBC Radio's “Sounds Like Canada” for Friday April 8th,2005

    The Terry Fox legacy is discussed with Guest -host Kathryn Gretzinger
    (I guess Shelagh Rogers is on holiday).  no other details are to
    be found on the Sounds Like Canada website for CBC Radio One.
    Listen in Vanouver to 690 AM for the show.  I will wager that
    members of the Fox family will be guests, most likely Terry's mother
    Betty Fox, or his younger brother Darrell Fox who is now national
    director for the Terry Fox Foundation.

    side notes:  I like Kathryn – she hosted “The Afternoon Show” on
    the local CBC Radio for many years (now retitled “One the Coast” with
    new host Priya Ramu – who is also very c-o-o-l ).  I was
    interviewed on the Afternoon show on Chinese New Year Day last year for
    2004 when CBC Radio did a joint show with Fairchild Radio featuring
    host Deborah Moore – another very nice radio host that I like).

    Lunch with Silk Road Music's Qiu Xia He and Andre Thibault

    Lunch with Silk Road Music's Qiu Xia He and Andre Thibault



    I had lunch today with Qiu Xia He and Andre Thibault – the husband-wife
    core of the music ensemble Silk Road Music, led by Qiu Xia.  They
    have recently returned from Easter concerts on Hornby Island, and
    Vancouvr Island + an extended tour of Toronto area schools in Ontario
    from January to February.  For a rave review of their recent
    Toronto concert appearance click here.
    http://www.thelivemusicreport.com/clubs/hughSroom/
    silkRoad/silkRoadJan05.html

    They are a wonderful couple, wonderful human beings, with good hearts
    that I truly feel comfortable with.  It has been very nice getting
    to know this musically exciting multicultural couple.  And it was
    made extra special by the presence of Andre's daughter Anita, and her
    friend Janie.  

    Qiu Xia was born in Xi'an China and came to Canada in 1985.  Andre
    is French Canadian (originally descended from Acadians from Nova
    Scotia) and came to Vancouver in the late 1970's.  They have now
    been part of the Gung Haggis Fat Choy family since Fall 2003 when Silk
    Road Music was featured in the CBC TV performance special.  Qiu
    Xia and Andre also performed with me for the 2004 GHFC dinners at
    Flamingo Restaurant and then this year for the First Night Vancouver at
    Library Square.

    Today we remarked how strange it was to actually be able to talk and be
    relaxed.  Usually we only see each other when we are doing shows,
    or having meetings…  But there is a very nice mutual respect and
    friendship that I sense with this couple.  And today, we discussed
    some recent discoveries about the mutual connections in our lives that
    were uncovered when I phoned my cousin Wayne on Hornby Island to ask if
    it was possible for a visit over Easter Weekend.  Wayne replied
    that the rooms were full because Silk Road Music was staying up at with
    them at Hornby Island, and that he had known both Qui Xia and Andre for
    many years.   I explained to Andre how the family connections
    worked, and we discovered that he had actually met Wayne's younger
    brother who had studied classical guitar at the Paris Sorbonne many
    years before.  Another connection is that they know Wayne's older
    brother Joe Wai, the architect who helped design the Dr. Sun Yat Sen
    Gardens, where they have performed many times, and where Qiu Xia has
    set up the “Enchanted Evenings” summer music performances.

    Andre showed me their music practice room, with guitar and pipa all set
    to go.  I was amazed at how many flutes that Andre had.  He
    told me that he even has a chinese “shung” or reed flute.  Qiu Xia
    was very excited when I told her that my paternal grandmother had been
    a trained Chinese court musician playing a chinese auto harp.  She
    told me the Chinese name and showed me a similar instrument that she
    has hanging on her wall which is more like a Chinese koto.  Qiu
    Xia was also fascinated to learn that I am 5th generation Canadian of
    Chinese descent.  Having been in Canada now for almost 20 years,
    she is fascinated about the transition of becoming Canadian and would
    like to learn more to see how other Chinese have become Canadianized
    over the years and over generations.  Perhaps I will invite Qiu
    Xia and Andre to one of my family dinners so they can meet all my
    cousins, aunts and uncles and see how almost everybody is now marrying
    non-Chinese.

    Terry Fox feature in Vancouver Sun today! How Terry came into the world

    Today's Vancouver Sun has a two page feature on Terry Fox on page
    B2-B3.  It leads off with a story about how Terry came
    into the world at a hospital in Winnipeg.  Tomorrow's edition will
    feature his relationship with his younger brother Darrell who
    accompanied Terry on his Marathon of Hope. 

    This year is the 25th anniversary of Terry's Marathon of Hope, which
    saw him run 2/3 of the way across Canada from New Found Land to Thunder
    Bay, Ontario.  This year I will write stories about Terry Fox and
    my own experiences about surviving cancer in 1989, and subsequently
    becoming a Terry's Team member in 1993.  Terry's Team members
    serve as living examples that cancer research has made a difference,
    and speak at Terry Fox Runs, as well as elementary schools – as I have
    done every year since Terry's brother Darrell asked me to become a
    Terry's Team member in 1993.

    “How could somebody run a marathon a day?” asked my favorite barista
    Rob, at my favorite Vancouver coffee bar (Guttenberg's at Library
    Square) this morning, when I told him about the Vancouver Sun
    article.  I shared with Rob some of the stories I had been told by
    Terry's coaches and family.  He had always been an enormously
    driven person, recieving Athelete of the Year of PoCo when he
    graduated from Port Coquitlam high school.

    More later….see other stories at http://www.gunghaggisfatchoy.com/blog/TerryFox